The more Sara, the better!

Daily dribble about life, pets, coupons and of course NKOTB!

What I Say vs What I Want

The ISSUES that lead to misunderstanding and conflict

  • Accomplishment really boils down to social and economic stability — we’re talking about issues like a partner’s profession, level of success and noteworthy achievement, being socially revered and having a respectable lifestyle.
  • Physical Chemistry really boils down to raw physical and sexual attraction — we’re talking about issues like a partner’s physical appearance, attitudes toward sex and sensual style.
  • Drive really boils down to mental and physical wellness — we’re talking about issues like a partner’s physical fitness, zest for life, energy level and openness to new opportunities.


Your scores on the “Lost in Translation Test” suggest that you want a man who’s “highly accomplished and driven as well as strongly values outward physical chemistry.”

What you “really” want

According to relationship experts, what you seem to be looking for is an “ADONIS.” An Adonis is well-poised to meet the hidden or unspoken needs you might actually be trying to fill in a search for a relationship. An Adonis is…

  • Someone with a strong sense of self, purpose and importance that lends itself to bolstering your personal identity, sense of worth and even social image.
  • Someone who can provide you (and any present or future children) with financial stability that is or has been lacking in your life.
  • Someone who’s ready and able to give you freedom and support for your personal or professional goals.
  • Someone who demands respect and makes a good impression on others.
  • Someone who’ll always strive to make you feel attractive, desirable and loved by providing undivided attention and a sense of physical security.
  • Someone who’ll make you feel young and alive. Someone who’ll renew your passion for life by opening your eyes to new experiences and opportunities.
  • Someone who enjoys their sensual nature and who puts thought into maintaining a healthy sense of one’s sexual self outside of the bedroom.
  • Someone strives for longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being physically attractive to you.

What do you want?

Check it here:

1 Comment »

The Dirty Little Secret

Took this test on OKCupid today ….. its pretty much dead on. .

Innocent but fundamentally sexual, like the word “finger”.
You are the Dirty Little Secret.

Few women have the confidence for sex mastery, and among nice girls, like you, it’s almost unheard of. So congratulations. You’ve had plenty of adventures, but you’ve remained a kind, thoughtful person. Your friends appreciate your exploits. They even live vicariously through you.

You seek pleasure, but you’re not irresponsible. You are organized and cautious, and you choose your lovers wisely. One, you don’t like dirtbags. And two, you like to maintain control. Or at least lose it selectively. You might notice that older men single you out. They have an eye for your sensual nature. Take it as a compliment.

You enjoy making people happy, and it’s inevitable that many s will fall harder for you than you for them. You’re not completely comfortable in a serious, long-term relationship right now. Our guess is that the key to extended happiness will be finding a responsible, but kinky, mate.



Yup, I stole'd it .

1. What if anything do you collect? Gah i so try NOT to collect things anymore, but I do have a collection of Marvin The Martian stuff, miniature tea sets, Vintage Care Bears, and of course Kurt Halsey stuff. 

2. If you stretch out your left arm as far as possible, what are you touching? My roommate

3. What's the last program you watched on tv? Currently watching That 70's show

4. Without looking, guess what time it is? How close were you? 10:42 (10:37 really)

5. Except the computer, what can you hear right now? the tv, josh eating, kisa's collar bell.

6. When was the last time you were outside and what did you do? about an hour ago, walkin from the car to the house

7. What are you wearing? brown work pants, new tank top

8. Did you dream last night? If you did, what about? not that i remember

9. When was the last time you laughed? tonight at Amber's surprise bday party

10. What's the last film you saw? Dear John yesterday

11. What's the last song you listened to? whatever was playing in the car, not sure was on the phone.

12. If you could be fluent in any other language, what would it be? Spanish, so I could talk to customers, or whatever asian-ese they use at the nail place.

13. What state do you live in? In what other state would you like to live? Colorado, – Wanna be in Boston, north or south carolina.

14. What do you want God to tell you, when you come to heaven? What the hell are you doing here? You know this place, and I, don’t exist! <~ keeping that one. mem

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

ruht roh..

Is your cat plotting to kill you?

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »


I took the 43 Things Personality Quiz and found out I'm a

Self-Knowing Healthy Reinventer

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

Sat AM Boredom

fun quiz for myspace profile and blog

Lets101 Quizzes – Fun quizzes for blog & myspace

fun quizzes and meme for blog

Lets101 – Free Online Dating


A soul from Venus with a sexual appeal 8.4 of 10.

Guys hold your breath…

Lets101 Quizzes – fun Myspace quiz

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

12 Months of Me


1 Who kissed you on new years​?​
Hmmm no one did, i was at the strip cub with chan chase ron and roxcee

2 Did you have a New Year'​s Resolution​ this year?​
To have an awesome year w/o drama, and yes it worked

3 Does it snow where​ you live?​
Ugh, yes, annoying.

4 Do you like hot chocolate?
with tons of marshmallows!!

5 Have you ever been to Times​ Squar​e to watch​ the ball drop?​
No, it'd be fun im sure.


1 Who was your Valen​tine?​
Hmmm I went to dinner with Mike

2 Did you do anything romantic?​
went to dinner

3 Do you care if the groundhog sees its shadow or not?
nah…not really

4 What did you receive for Valentine's Day?


1 Are you Irish​?​
Well i found out my grandmas grandpa was irish.. so maybe a lil?

2 Do you like corned beef and cabbage?
I like corned beef, i actually made some this year

3 What did you do for St Patricks day?
We went to Challengers.. theres pictures in my album

4 Are you happy​ when Winte​r is prett​y much over?
YES can't wait for tank tops and flip flops


1 Do you like the rain?​
I love it.

2 Did you play an April​Fool'​s joke on anyon​e this year?​
no can't say that i did

3 Do you get a lot of Easte​r candy​?
When I was a kid I'd get a basket or two

4 Do you celeb​rate 4/​20?​
Not my thing

5 Do you love the month​ of April​?​
I don't HATE it


1 What is your favor​ite flower?​

2 Finish the phrase "April showers…
brings may flowers der

3 Do you celebrate May 16th:National Piercing Day?
never heard of that and no..

4 Is May anything special to you?
Umm my moms bday?


1 What year will you gradu​ate from high schoo​l?​
Been there done that c/o 2000 baby

2 Did you do anyth​ing fun durin​g this month​?​
Uhmm.. probably had sex? thats fun.

3 Have a favor​ite baseb​all team?​


1 What did you do on the 4th of July?​
I was in Tampa watching the fireworks from the Aquarium!

2 Did you go to the firew​orks?​
See above

3 Did you blast the A/C all day?
Yeah even though my AC sucks, luckily ron gave me a portable swamp cooler, that thing saved my ass.


1 What was your favorite summer memory of '08?
Hmmm… all the drunken nights?

2 Did you have a sunburn?
OMG YEs when i came back from florida i was in so much pain

3 Did you go to the pool a lot?
Went to chan's pool like once i think


1 Are you atten​ding ​schoo​l?​
no, i kinda wish i was though

2 Do you like fall bette​r than summe​r?​
No, I heart summer

3 What happe​ned this month​?​
Nothing spectacular I dont think


1 What did you dress up as?
Cocktail bunny (again)

2 What is your favorite candy​?
omg umm.. kit kats, rolo's… anything chocolaty w/o nuts in it.

3 Anyth​ing speci​al about​ this month​?
Hung out with some cool ppl on halloween (=

4 Did you go Trick​ or Treat​ing?​
nope…too old for that


1 Whose​ house​did you go to for Thanksgiving?​
Went to the fam's and chantelles

2 What are you thankful for?
Having a job, a home, and healthy pets & friends

3 Do you love stuffing?​
omg yes i even bought some prior to thanksgiving

4 Anyth​ing special in this month​?​
Not really no


1 Do you celebrate Christmas?​
heck yes!! I love xmas ! <3  bring on the presents!

2 Have you ever been kisse​d under​ the mistl​etoe?​
im pretty sure i have but not recently

3 Get anything special last year?​
The FLU from Chan & Chase.. does that count?

4 What do you want this year?​
A new laptop, and a boyfriend (=

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

MY Rainbow

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

Lil bout me, something to pass the time.

Would you get back with your last ex if they asked you?
Hells to the No

What friend do you tell the most to?
Hmm depends, either Chan, Tanya, or Ron

Name 3 thoughts you have at this exact moment?
Can't wait for work to be over, wish tomorrow was friday, thats about it

You're walking down the street with your love, where are you going?
MMMM probably for some ColdStone

What's something you really want right now, be honest?

What's the last pill you took?
Vitamin last night

Last time you had butterflies in your stomach?
Been quite a while.

Does anything hurt on your body?
not at the moment

Who was the last person to disappoint you?
Library guy for sures. After all that talking and he acts shady. Lameness.

Do you still talk to that person?
Kinda sorta. I answered the phone while i was asleep last night apparently.

Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
Hmmm… either Ron or Library guy

What are you listening to right now?
The girls in the office talkin

Have you ever punched a hole in the wall?

Do you know someone in jail?
Yup sure do. a few ppl

Who did you copy this from?

Where's the weirdest place you've changed clothes?
Probably a vehicle.

Do you wear glasses?
Nope not at all

Who do you love?
Friends, pets, family

What's the cd in your player?
A burned one I made a few weeks ago

Anything annoying you right now?
Now that the phones are off for the day, no.

Who was the last person to make you cry?
I don't know.

Anybody you're looking forward to seeing soon?
Not really no.

Is there a friend particularly that you miss?

What will you be doing in a half hour?
Sitting in traffic

What is your underwear color?
Blue with white trim (=

Anywhere you'd rather be right now?
At the bar

Are you going anywhere for the next summer?
No idea, thats a long time away

Are you waiting for anyone's call right now?
No because I know it wont happen.

Have you ever thought about getting your lip pierced?
Yeah i thought about it

Does a kiss make you feel better?
Yes – Always

Have you ever passed out on the bathroom floor ?
Yes of course, thats the best place, that cool tile, and the proximity of the toilet just in case lol

Do you start the water before you get in the shower or when you get in?
Before of course derr. My shower is very bi-polar will scald you and freeze your ass in 2.5 seconds

What did you do today?
work work worked

Have you ever brushed your teeth while in the shower?
Don't think so

Have you had more than 3 boyfriends / girlfriend s at the same time?
lol.. ..well… do you consider fuck buddys?

Have you ever thought about your death?

Ever been in love?

Would you rather be in a permanent relationship or play the field ?
Relationships are such BS and so much fucking drama and work. Playing the field is so much easier

What is your favorite sport ?

What color is your shower curtain?

Have you ever had stitches?

Did you believe that boys/ girls had cooties?
LOL at one time long ago.

Do you know how to use chopsticks?

Lyrics stuck in your head?
Not gonna write you a love song cuz u asked for it…

Do you like the Red Sox or Yankees?
Neither one

What are you doing tomorrow?
working and I have no idea what else.

Who was the last person you couldn't take your eyes off of?
No idea

Have you ever given money to a homeless person?

Have you ever run over an animal?

What is your favorite cereal?
Waffle Crisp (do they make that anymore) and honey bunches of oats with strawberries

Have you ever had an Oreo with peanut butter?

What are you doing right at this moment?
Typing this, duh.

Do you think its right for straight guys to get their tongue pierced?

Where's your favorite place to be?
In Bed

What's your favorite song?
So many. right now its Natasha Bedingfield – Soulmate

Are you more of a coffee or alcohol drinker?
Vodka baby

Have you ever thrown shoes on a telephone wire?

Have you ever been skinny dipping?

Do you dream in black and white ?

Do you talk in your sleep?
LOL sometimes

Do you snore?
LoL, sometimes again

Are you a redneck?

Funniest thing you heard all day?
Well i was going to process this guy's renewal, but instead, he sent in his paycheck, and deposit slip! woops!

Have you ever gotten a mosquito bite on your face?
Yes I have

What are you afraid of?
Being alone.

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »

Bored with Cleaning, Lets talk about Sex

Are you a fan of PDA's? (Public Display of Affection) To an extent, hand holding is good, and lil kisses.. but not full on making out in Red Robin…

Have you ever been caught making out? Not by like, an authority figure or anything.

How many "bases" have you been to? Grand Slam baby

Have you had sex on the 1st date? LoL.. it doesnt even take a date sometimes…

How many different people have you had sex with? Enough

Have you ever had a three-some? LoL.. a few…

Do you kiss and tell? Of course I do

Lights on or off? Low.. or off… preferrably

Have you ever tried 69? Derrrrr

Do you have hair down there? LOL sometimes

What about your mate? Which One?

What's your favorite position? Diggity Dogg….

When did you lose your virginity? 17

Have you ever given road head? LOL amazingly no….

Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? EWWWWWWWW No

Did you ever have anal sex? Is it My Birthday or Yours?

Whats better pleasing,or being pleased? Pleasing

Are you a screamer, moaner,or silent? Depends how big it is….

Have you ever had sex at school? LoL No

Whats better a tongue,or a finger? Both!

Have you ever gotten the shocker? LOL Love it

Have you ever had a pregnancy scare? hahahaha. oh boy.

Have you ever kissed you bestfriends boyfriend? No, I'm not a whore like that

Would u ever be a porn star? For suuuuuure

Do u think about sex all the time? Pretty Much yeah

Would you ever have a friend with benefits? I have a few….

How long was your last relationship? 4 1/2 years…

When was the last time you played with yourself? Friday Night

Would you wax off all your body hair for 100 dollars? Sure.. just not anything on my head…

Do you own any sex toys? A few!

Have you ever watched porn? all.the.time.

Are you single/taken/engaged/inbetween/swinger? Single

Have you ever done anything anything naughty with a webcam? LOL yeah… derrr

What is your fav part of a guy/girl? Butt…Penis..Eyes…

Had sex or been felt up? of course…

Have you ever stripped for someone? LOL.. not like a strip tease…

Do you know what the mile high club is? Yes, but I havent done it…

Ever done anything weird with your tongue? LoL.. things dont seem weird to me..

How many licks does it take too get too the center of a tootsie pop? 7

What was the kinkiest thing you ever did for someone? Birthday

Would you pose naked for art purposes? Sure….

Would you date someone out of your religion? I have none, so yeah…

What's the sexiest thing a guy/girl did too you? Be nice….

What do u do when your super bored? Watch Porn

Is Barbie really a slut? No, she's a prude

Who is hotter The Rock or Orlando Bloom? Orlando Bloom

What is sexier, six pack or biceps? Six Pack,.. with INDENTS

Do you ever go commando? Sure why not

Have you ever sent naked pics of you to a boyfriend/lover? LoL yeahh derrrr

Have you and your significant other ever made a sex tape? LoL….yeah.. dunno whatever happened to it….

Read and post comments | Send to a friend

Leave a comment »